Falling in love

a couple of nights ago.. i was think about love.. falling in and being spit out.. certain situations in my life have giving me the liberty to say what i know so far about his topic which is very illogical.... the chosen one.. is that person that shows up unexpected...and you are willing to open yourself in every sense of the word... sometimes this person is chosen...by ideals established in the family, maybe someone that resembles something you never had.. or something you want, maybe that person reminds you of someone that you liked but were never able to engage a relationship with... but the first thing we notice about this person is their physical traits in 90% of these cases... when the feeling is mutual.....we begin this thing called love... but love in my case... i believe is just making yourself vulnerable.. opening yourself.. is trying to have... find that acceptance that you always wanted and never had.. doing things you never thought you would...sometimes we know that the relationship will never succeed but we have shown our true colors and we just cant let go....that's why it hurts to let go.. once you shown.. and done things outside of you and even put your ego to rest.. is hard to believe... is over....when you have done so much...real healthy relationships take time..Good communication...Separate identities...Fairness/equality...Support..Honesty...TRUST...Mutual respect http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/youth/health/relationships/healthy.htm